Photographing a family photoshoot or children with special needs in my studio is actually not much different from photographing any other family. Still, parents are often concerned or worried that the photographer will not understand or be respectful to their child. Some worry that their child may act out or have a meltdown during the shoot. These concerns are valid and rightfully so!
Having worked in professional studios for over ten years, met and photographed so many different families; I would like to share some specific advice, tips, and tricks on how to photograph kids with special needs.
Frequent concern # 1: “What challenges do you encounter when photographing kids with special needs and how did you manage to work with them to create beautiful photographs, and craft a great experience for the whole family in the process?”
Photographing a child with special needs in many ways, is actually the same as photographing any other kid. I would find ways to engage and listen to them. Sometimes, it does take a longer time to build up the trust. For a younger child, I frequently engage them with sensory play such as bubbles or peek-a-boo with curtains.
Finding out the interests of an older child is very helpful as well. Chatting about topics such as their favourite movie / character/ food or songs are all proven ice-breakers.
I would also try to get such information from the parents before the sessions, so I would be better prepared.
Years ago, I met a child who really disliked flash lights, so the shoot was scheduled to be early in the morning and only pure natural light was used for the entire session. I also met a family with a special needs child who was very sensitive to loud noises. I made sure phones were muted and windows were firmly shut to keep out loud noises. I told myself to always speak only in a low measured tone as well.
In short, finding out the likes and dislikes of each unique family really gives them a better experience during the shoot.
Frequent concern # 2: “Would you be posing my special need child? I am worried he will not be taking instructions well or may even have trouble sitting still.”
I always find that continuously engaging ALL my clients will ensure better results. Eg: having parents playing or chatting to their children, or toddlers riding on rocking horses. Sometimes I will be simply chit-chatting with my subjects while photographing at the same time. Other times you will find me barking, meowing or even chirping like a pet just to get the attention of a younger child!
Again, speaking with parents before the shoot will let me know their preferences and likes. With that information, a major part of the shoot can be tailored accordingly to suit everybody. This never fails to put Mom and Dad at better ease as well.
Knowing when to pause for a break and reschedule
Years ago, I met a family with a little boy who was already super upset and was crying the moment the session started. I tried all the tricks up my sleeve but he didn’t want any chocolate, he didn’t want to engage in any games, he didn’t want to be hugged or even touched. Nothing worked. The parents and siblings were getting increasingly upset and frustrated as well. So, I had to manage the expectations of his parents and got them to reschedule.
Guess what? He was much, much more willing to participate throughout the rescheduled shoot! Not only was he happier but we managed to get a lot of really awesome portrait shots in the process. Everybody went home really happy that day. Sometimes, timing is everything.
Photography Venue choices for a child with special needs
- The choice of location would largely depend on the child. For example, if she has a sensory issue, then a busy park might not be a good idea.
- Indoor venues that a child can safely explore proves to be the most ideal.
- Consider the child’s personality. If she is shy and easily distracted, again a busy public place should be avoided.
Conclusion
It is my privilege to be able to draw out those unique and quirky traits each family possesses and document them in pictures, whether accompanied by a special needs child or otherwise. I truly feel blessed to be able to interact with them, and be trusted.
